You know,it's kinda hard to be an inspiration to my children when most of them feel they are the center of the universe. No, you can't just sit in your room and ignore the fact that others are preparing your meals, cleaning the house you live in and working to pay the heating and cooling bills. If you can't help financially then you better get out of the chair (or bed) and start prepping vegetables or vacuuming or taking dogs for walks. This is a free ride no longer!!!! And I do not want to hear "what has that got to do with me?" You live here. You better participate! You are not the only person in the world. If you want to continue to live in my house and use my car and and eat my food (and use other items from my house), I want VOLUNTEERING to do things around the house and help out others who are also participating in this new family dynamic. You may have worked, worked out, or educated yourself during the day, but the day doesn't stop there for anyone. I want you to start acting like the family I hoped for....caring PROPERLY for each other, for the animals, for the house and for me. If you can't do that, let me know where to send your mail.